There are some who claim that Mary had children in addition to Jesus, citing one or more of
the following Scriptural passages:
“...his mother and his brethren were standing without...” (Matthew 12:46)
“Is this not the carpenter, son of Mary, the brother of James and Joseph and Judas
and Simon? Do not his sisters live here near us?” (Mark 6:3)
“For even his own brothers did not believe in him.” (John 7:5)
“...with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with his brothers.” (Acts 1:14)
“...and the Lord’s brothers...” (1 Corinthians 9:5)
“But he had no union with her until she gave birth to a son.” (Matthew 1:25)
The Church teaches us that Mary was perpetually virgin and this is what we affirm every
time we recite the Confetitor. Why the difference? It comes with the fact that almost 20
centuries have passed since the books of the Bible were written and customs have changed,
along with the fact that some people read into the text’s meanings which were not
intended. First century customs cannot be interpreted with 20th century values.
In the first case, what was the custom for calling someone your “brother,” “sister,” or using
the collective term of “brethren?” In Genesis 14:14, Lot is called Abraham’s “brother” but
Genesis 11:27 tells us that Lot was the son of Aran, Abraham’s brother. This shows that the
terms were used to include cousins, but they were not even limited to close relatives (see
Deuteronomy 23:7 and Jeremiah 34:9 for examples). Why was this? Neither Hebrew nor
Aramaic (the language most likely spoken by Jesus and the apostles) had a special word for
“cousin.” Instead, the words “brother,” “sister,” and “brethren” were commonly used. The
writers of the New Testament, although writing in Greek, were raised in the Hebrew
tradition and kept to this tradition as they were writing primarily to other Jewish
Christians. Acts 2:46 illustrates that these Jewish Christians went to temple in addition to
worshiping together.
Now back to Mark 6:3 where the “brothers” of Jesus are named and consider James and
Joseph. Compare the descriptions of the women at the foot of the cross in Matthew 27:56,
Mark 15:40 and John 19:25. From this we find that Mary the mother of James and Joseph
must be the wife of Cleophas. No one has ever suggested that the Blessed Virgin remarried,
especially since Jesus entrusted her care to John. Similar arguments can be made for the
other “brethren.”
Let’s go on to Matthew 1:25 and find the meaning of “until” (or “till” in some translations).
“He knew her not until she brought forth her first-born son” doesn’t necessarily mean that
Our Savior referred to Himself as the “son of man” over 85 times in the New Testament. This was a direct quotation to the prophecy of Daniel that says, “In my vision at night I looked, and there before me was one like a son of man, coming with the clouds of heaven. He approached the Ancient of Days and was led into his presence. He was given authority, glory and sovereign power; all peoples, nations and men of every language worshiped him. His dominion is an everlasting dominion that will not pass away, and his kingdom is one that will never be destroyed” (Daniel 7:13-14). By referring to Himself with this title, Jesus wanted the Jews to see Him as the One who was given dominion and glory and the kingdom, thus, fulfilling the Messianic prophecies of the Old Testament.
Also, the phrase “son of man” means that Jesus was truly a human being. At the incarnation, the Son of God took upon Himself the form of humanity (John 1:1–4, 12, 14; Philippians 2:7; Hebrews 2:14). And He became the Son of man (Mark 2:10). Thus, He united divinity with humanity by a tie which will never be broken. John the beloved wrote, “By this you know the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is of God” (1 John 4:2). It is a most comforting thought to repentant sinners to know that their representative before the Father is “One like” themselves but without sin (Hebrews 4:15).
Anyone who reads the Gospels understands that one of Jesus’ favorite titles to use of himself is the son of man. Interestingly, the son of man moniker is used 79 times in the Gospels, and once in Acts (7:56), but in each case it is Jesus using the phrase of himself. Nobody calls Jesus the son of man, nor is anyone else called the son of man.
Although there is debate about where the New Testament title son of man comes from, it almost certainly comes from the backdrop of Daniel 7:13-14, where “one like a son of man” comes before the Ancient of Days and is given dominion over the entire world with an everlasting kingdom. Daniel 7, which was understood as Messianic even before the time of Christ (cf. 4 Ezra 13) provides the vocabulary which Jesus could appropriate for himself—indicating He is the Messianic representative of humanity.
This understanding is affirmed by Jesus himself in passages like Mark 14:61-62. In response to the question, “Are you the Christ, the Son of the Blessed?” Jesus states, “I am, and you will see the Son of Man seated at the right hand of Power, and coming with the clouds of heaven” (v. 62). The combination of the son of man title and the description of the clouds of heaven only fits with the Daniel 7:13-14 backdrop. So, the title son of man in the New Testament is best understood as a Messianic reference that Christ claims for himself from the background of Daniel 7.
Naturally, a follow-up question to the preceding observations relates to Ezekiel and the fact that he is called son of man 93 times. In fact, the singular phrase “son of man” (בֶּן־אָדָם), shows up a total of 107 times in the Old Testament. Why would Ezekiel be called son of man, when the New Testament seems to clearly indicate that the phrase as Messianic implications?
First of all, as others have noted, Jesus is referred to as “the Son of Man” (ὁ υἱὸς τοῦ ἀνθρώπου) in the Gospels (the definite article being utilized). However, in contrast, Ezekiel is referred to as a son of man, generically (בֶּן־אָדָם). In Hebrew and Greek, the definite article is used to specify while the absence of the article is usually indicative of quality. So, in the case of Ezekiel and other Old Testament references, the quality of humanity is being stressed.
This point is illustrated well by one of the none-Ezekielian references in Numbers 23:19, “God is not a man, that he should lie, or a son of man, that he should change his mind.” In other words, deity and humanity are being put in contrast here. Son of man could simply be translated as “human being” in this context.
This understanding of the title son of man being an emphasis on humanity fits well with the overall message of Ezekiel. Compared to the divine majesty and transcendent glory of God as displayed in Ezekiel 1, it is an important reminder that Ezekiel is only just a man. He may be a prophet with an important message, but he is always one of them (humans), not comparable to the One he sees in his visions.
After Israel went into exile in 587 BC, the Jewish populace began to speak primarily Aramaic. Although the Hebrew language never died out, the primary usage of the Aramaic language continued among the Jewish population, even into the early first centuries. Because there was such a heavy usage of Aramaic as the lingua franca there was a need for the Jewish people to have access to the Scriptures in Aramaic. Thus, the Targumim (plural of Targum) were written.
The Targumim were Jewish Scriptures translated into the Aramaic language. One of the more famous of these Targumim was Targum Jonathan, a translation of the prophets (Josh–Malachi) sometime in the first two or three centuries AD.
Of interest to our present article, Alinda Damsma observes that the translator of Ezekiel in Targum Jonathan uses a unique translation of the title son of man. Rather than translating the phrase son of man (בֶּן־אָדָם) in Hebrew to the natural Aramaic equivalent (בר אנשׁא), the Ezekiel translation kept אָדָם as a proper name in the translation (בַּר אָדָם). This stands out all the more since in other places in Targum Jonathan, the phrase son of man is translated normally into Aramaic (e.g., Jer 49:33). Damsma argues that the Ezekielian translator was motivated to avoid the Messianic connotations of son of man (בר אנשׁא) as it appears in Daniel 7.
This evidence helps us understand that there was a difference between how Jewish people read Daniel 7 and Ezekiel. One was viewed as Messianic, and the other was viewed as a phrase underscoring the human mortality of Ezekiel in contrast to the divine visions which he had access to.
Here is the passage in Daniel 7… “I kept looking in the night visions, And behold, with the clouds of heaven One like a Son of Man was coming, And He came up to the Ancient of Days And was presented before Him. “And to Him was given dominion, Glory and a kingdom, That all the peoples, nations and men of every language Might serve Him. His dominion is an everlasting dominion Which will not pass away; And His kingdom is one Which will not be destroyed. (Dan 7:13-14)
Notice the direction that the “Son of Man” is traveling. He is traveling UP to the Ancient of Days where He is given a dominion, Glory, and an everlasting kingdom that will never pass away!
This is the exact opposite of how futurists today take Jesus’ reference to Daniel 13. It is viewed as the “Glorious Return” of Christ. My NASB bible even labels it as “The Glorious Return” in Matthew 24.
Only when we go back and look at the passage that Jesus quotes from do we see its true meaning. His coming is not back to us, but rather Jesus is coming home to the Ancient of Days after accomplishing all that the Father had given Him to do. The viewpoint is clearly from the perspective of heaven.
Jesus is now currently ruling and reigning over all things in heaven AND earth. He is King over an Everlasting Kingdom where all the peoples and nations of the earth serve Him. Jesus informed His disciples in Matt 28:18… Ἐδόθη μοι πᾶσα ἐξουσία ἐν οὐρανῷ καὶ ἐπὶ γῆς. (All authority has been given to me in heaven AND on earth). Ἐδόθη is in the aorist passive indicative form meaning that Jesus believes that this had already happened at the time He informed His disciples. Of course, we know from Luke that later the disciples watched Jesus ascend into the clouds of heaven to be seated at the right hand of the Father.
Peter in his sermon at Pentecost in Acts 2 after quoting many Old Testament Messianic passages referring to Christ says this… “Brethren, I may confidently say to you regarding the patriarch David that he both died and was buried, and his tomb is with us to this day. “And so, because he was a prophet and knew that GOD HAD SWORN TO HIM WITH AN OATH TO SEAT one OF HIS DESCENDANTS ON HIS THRONE, he looked ahead and spoke of the resurrection of the Christ, that HE WAS NEITHER ABANDONED TO HADES, NOR DID His flesh SUFFER DECAY. “This Jesus God raised up again, to which we are all witnesses. “Therefore having been exalted to the right hand of God, and having received from the Father the promise of the Holy Spirit, He has poured forth this which you both see and hear. “For it was not David who ascended into heaven, but he himself says: ‘THE LORD SAID TO MY LORD, “SIT AT MY RIGHT HAND, UNTIL I MAKE YOUR ENEMIES A FOOTSTOOL FOR YOUR FEET.” ’ “Therefore let all the house of Israel know for certain that God has made Him both Lord and Christ—this Jesus whom you crucified.” (Acts 2: 29-36)
After stating that David was a prophet, Peter says that David looked ahead and spoke of One of his descendants sitting on His throne, speaking of the RESURRECTION and ascension of Christ. It was not David’s throne that Jesus would sit on, the promise was that One of David’s descendants would sit on God’s throne. To which Peter claims to be a witness along with the other disciples
stand upon thy feet] At the sight of the great glory of God the prophet had fallen to the ground (ch. Ezekiel 1:28). He is bidden stand on his feet. Not paralysis before him is desired by God, but reasonable service. The prophet’s falling down was natural, yet a condition unfit for God’s purposes, and not desired by him to continue. Those whom he calls to his service are his fellow-workers, who may look upon his face. It is man erect, man in his manhood, with whom God will have fellowship and with whom he will speak—stand upon thy feet “that I may speak with thee.”
1. Son of man—often applied to Ezekiel; once only to Daniel (Da 8:17), and not to any other prophet. The phrase was no doubt taken from Chaldean usage during the sojourn of Daniel and Ezekiel in Chaldea. But the spirit who sanctioned the words of the prophet implied by it the lowliness and frailty of the prophet as man "lower than the angels," though now admitted to the vision of angels and of God Himself, "lest he should be exalted through the abundance of the revelations" (2Co 12:7). He is appropriately so called as being type of the divine "Son of man" here revealed as "man" (see on [1018]Eze 1:26). That title, as applied to Messiah, implies at once His lowliness and His exaltation, in His manifestations as the Representative man, at His first and second comings respectively (Ps 8:4-8; Mt 16:13; 20:18; and on the other hand, Da 7:13, 14; Mt 26:64; Joh 5:27).Ezekiel’s commission, Ezekiel 2:1-5; his instructions, Ezekiel 2:6-8. The roll of heavy judgments spread before him, Ezekiel 2:9,10.
The ubiquitous vocative expression בן־אדם (literally ‘son of man’) in the Book of Ezekiel seems to underscore the prophet’s status as a mere mortal. In contrast to the other ancient versions, Targum Jonathan to the Prophets interprets the word אדם as a proper noun, and renders the phrase accordingly as בר אדם ‘son of Adam’. This translation runs counter to the Targum’s conventional practice of rendering בן־אדם with בר אנש(א). In the absence of a satisfactory grammatical explanation for the divergent rendering, this article examines the possibility that the Targumist’s eschewal of בר אנשא was motivated by doctrinal concerns. On the strength of the findings it is argued that בר אדם was a clever and subtle alternative for בר אנשא because, depending on the context, the latter phrase could evoke associations with the Danielic Son of Man figure and the Son of Man Christology.